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February 9, 2010

Celtic Weddings

Celtic wedding are an perfect way of showing your being a Celt. It is also a way of incorporating traditional values, symbols, themes and customs into major events in your life. However, Celtic wedding are hugely popular not only among people with a Celtic tradition, but among other couples who are taken by the ancient Celtic culture.

Celtic wedding have traditional symbolic motifs, often based on the Celtic knot. Welsh, Irish and Scottish families will sometimes marry in ancient buildings like castles or old manors, but that is not the standard. A traditional Celtic wedding is not greatly different from a normal British wedding in a lot of ways.

However, the number of similarities between Celtic wedding traditions and normal British-style weddings goes a lot further than that. If you want a traditional British style wedding, you will be going unsuspectingly for a Celtic wedding. But you can beef up the Celtic element of the wedding ceremony even further without sinking into silly theatrics.

This is a traditional Celtic poem about when to marry:

Marry when the year is new, Always loving, kind and true.

When February birds do mate, You may wed, nor dread your fate.

If you wed when March winds blow, Joy and sorrow both you’ll know.

Marry in April when you can, Joy for maiden and for man.

Marry in the month of May, You will surely rue the day.

Marry when June roses blow, Over land and sea you’ll go.

They who in July do wed, Must labour always for their bread.

Whoever wed in August be, Many a change are sure to see.

Marry in September’s shine, Your living will be rich and fine.

If in October you do marry, Love will come but riches tarry.

If you wed in bleak November, Only joy will come, remember.

When December’s showers fall fast, Marry and true love will last.

Here are a few other traditions:

Loving Cup: The traditional cup is a two-handled bowl with Celtic designs engraved onto it. The idea of the Loving Cup ceremony is for the bride and groom to share their first drink together as husband and wife and to demonstrate the coming together of their two families.

The Bell of Truce: A bell is blessed and then presented to the bride and groom. The couple is required to ring the bell, while thinking tender thoughts of each other. The bell is then kept at home as a token of the wedding day. If an argument arises, the bell can be rung by either the husband or wife to call a truce. The tinkling sound is meant to remind the couple of their wedding vows and to help them recall happy memories from their wedding day.

Handfasting: Early Celts used to ?tie the knot?. It originates from a pre-Christian custom of literally tying a couple’s wrists together in a form of probationary marriage lasting a year and a day, at the end of which a new agreement was made or the couple parted ways.

Bride’s Bouquet: In Celtic wedding traditions brides carried herbs beneath their veils to symbolize fidelity, and spices to ward off evil spirits.

Ring finger: Ancient Celts thought that there was a vein in the third finger of the left hand that ran directly to the heart, so ring placed on that finger denoted a strong love and vow to the other.

Wedding cake: A thin loaf was cracked over the bride’s head at the end of the ceremony to indicate fertility. The wheat from which it was made symbolized fertility and the guests enthusiastically picked up the pieces as good luck charms.

It was also common for the Celtic groom to throw a handful of coins into the crowd after the wedding, in the belief that this would bring them good fortune in the years ahead.

Owen Jones, the writer of this piece, writes on many topics, but is currently involved with theCeltic Knot wedding ring. If you have an interest in wedding rings too, please go to our website now at White Gold Claddagh Ring

February 7, 2010

Wedding Rings

The practice of giving and wearing a wedding ring dates back thousands of years. A wedding ring symbolizes faithfulness and love between two people and are given on the day of a couple joining forces. Before the time that the knowledge of how to work metal became widely known, people used such things as plants, grass and even hair to ‘tie the knot’, which is what I think a wedding ring stands for.

These days a typical wedding ring might be made from valuable metals such as gold, titanium, platinum or even white gold. Women’s wedding rings often hold a diamond, although sapphires are rapidly becoming more prevalent. Men’s wedding rings are often just a plain band of gold. There are many distinctive styles of wedding rings, but the most popular for men is definitely the plain gold band.

For those who want something a bit more flamboyant, there are plenty of examples on the market. A man might want a more ostentatious wedding ring, because it is often the only piece of jewellery that a man wears. Some alternatives to the plain band of gold are the Celtic Knot and the Claddagh gold rings.

It is important for men’s wedding rings to be made from a robust alloy of gold. Most men do physical labour of one kind or another, even if it is only gardening, so it is a lot to ask of a pure gold wedding ring to last thirty or forty years.

A 14 or 18 carat gold ring will probably do it, but a 22 carat ring would not. It would just wear away because it is too pure and consequently too soft. Platinum or titanium are much harder, although most people prefer gold.

In most countries tradition dictates that people wear their wedding ring on their left hand, although in a few countries such as Germany, Russia and Norway, people wear their wedding ring on the right hand.

Some couples would rather have a unique wedding ring and that is not so difficult to achieve as it might first appear to be. The easiest way to personalize your ring is to have an inscription like names and a date engraved on it.

Another way, would be to buy a precious stone separately and have the jeweller set it into the ring for you. The best alternative though is to find a jeweller you can trust and have him or her make up a pair of matching rings to your own design. I have done that and it is not a lot more expensive than a good ring.

Wearing matching wedding rings is a notable experience. People notice that your ring is ’something different’ and many people ask, where you got them from. It all goes to help make that special day unforgettable for ever.

Owen Jones, the writer of this piece, writes on many topics, but is currently involved with theCeltic Knot wedding ring. If you have an interest in wedding rings too, please go to our website now at White Gold Claddagh Ring

January 29, 2010

Gold Wedding And Engagement Rings

The most frequently used element for wedding rings and engagement rings is gold. White gold is even more elite. Gold wedding rings look good whether the design is just a simple, basic band or an engraved ring like a Celtic Knot. Gold rings can be given on other occasions as well of course. Some people give their children a gold ring for their coming of age birthday.

Until not so long ago, it was customary for the man to give a gold ring when he asked for his girlfriend’s hand in matrimony. However, nowadays it is more usual for the couple to go shopping for the engagement or wedding ring together. This makes good sense, even if it is less romantic, because the wearer can get the design that she likes.

Gold symbolizes purity in many cultures and that is one of the reasons why it is given to brides and brides to be. The symbolism is all but lost though in today’s consumer society in the West. For many people though it still symbolizes the hope that they will stay true to each other, until the day they die. It is a way of showing that the wearer has taken vows and intends to stick to them.

There is a huge variety of gold rings available. However, the variety lies not only in the design but also in the purity of the gold. Naturally, the purer the gold, the more expensive it is. In the UK, most gold rings are either 9 or 18 carat. In the USA, most gold rings are 14 carat, but in Thailand, not many people would buy gold that is less than 18 carat and 22 carat is the norm for women. Pure gold is 24 carat, however pure gold is so malleable that you can mould it with your bare hands.

This might sound fine, but it is not. A 24 carat gold ring goes out of shape every few hours, just by you doing what you do every day and then it can pinch your skin. Opening a door can buckle the ring. This means that you can not set stones in pure gold, because they would soon fall out. Pure gold rings are best not even engraved because the design would soon rub off.

Therefore, the best place to begin, if you want a gold ring, is to think about what style you want. Do you want precious stones set into it? Then you should not really go above 18 carat. If you cannot afford 18 carat then 9 or 14 carat is for you. If you want something like a Celtic Knot ring, that is one with an engraved pattern, then anything up to 18 carat for you too, depending on your finances. If you want a pain band of gold, then a thick ring of 22 carat gold would be great, but not if you do a lot of labor-intensive work.

If you really want something special, why not have a gold ring crafted to your own design? It is not so expensive as you might think and you will end up with something unique, especially if you provide your own stone to be polished too. Such a gold ring would become a family heirloom and could stay in the family for generations.

Owen Jones, the writer of this article, writes on many subjects, but is currently involved with theCeltic Knot wedding ring. If you have an interest in wedding rings too, please go to our website now at White Gold Claddagh Ring

January 28, 2010

Saving Money In The Sales

Everyone loves to take advantage of the reduced prices during the holiday sales. In fact, the best day to go looking for special offers is the day after the actual holiday is over.

Black Friday is the day after Thanksgiving and it is the busiest shopping day of the year. You will get enormous savings, but you will have to get up early, be ready to queue and jostle.

Another example is jewellery and St Valentine?s Day. Many men buy their wives or girlfriends jewellery during this period as a St Valentine?s Day gift. However, in the weeks after St Valentine?s Day, you can save a minimum of 30% on the very same pieces of jewellery that were on sale a week before. This is a clear indication that we are being hood-winked on these holiday occasions and that we should wait until the actual holiday is over.

OK, it may not seem so romantic to wait, but it must be preferable to be able to get 30% more gold for your money or to give the same gift, but be able to go for a meal too. If I were a woman, I know which alternative I would choose!

Or, instead of a nice silver or gold ring, you would be able to afford gold instead of silver or white gold instead of yellow. You could get a exquisite Celtic knot or a Claddagh ring instead of a simple band.

Striking Easter outfits are also expensive before Easter. However, why not buy the items you want after Easter and either make use of them next year or use them for parties, exceptional occasions or church? You can save a bundle of money in this way, just by using a little forward planning.

In order to help cut down on how much money you spend on Christmas gifts, why not try buying them all year long as and when you find something nice in the sales? How many times have you come across something in a sale and said to yourself: ‘that would be the perfect gift for so-and-so’? It is better to take advantage of these opportunities and keep the items aside for when the right event comes up.

Then there are those post Christmas sales too. The Boxing Day sales are a great opportunity to pick up items that you can give as gifts later in the year. And why not buy something for yourself too while you are at it? You can save a fortune on your favourite scents. Buy enough to last you the rest of the year!

You can make your funds go a lot further if you take advantage of the post holiday sales. Rely on serendipity. Buy opportunistically and you will not only save yourself a lot of money, but you will never be stuck for a gift at the last minute either.

Owen Jones, the writer of this piece, writes on many subjects, but is currently involved with theCeltic Knot wedding ring. If you have an interest in wedding rings too, please go to our website now at White Gold Claddagh Ring

January 12, 2010

How To Get Her Back Faster Than You Thought Possible

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , — Mike Lemburg @ 7:15 am

Have you been trying to figure out how to get her back but it seems like everything you try is a failure? If so then it is a good thing you are reading this. In this article you will learn three great tips that will help you get her back in no time!

1-Make sure you do not obsess about it

Right now, you need to make sure you get your head on straight. If you do not then you will dramatically decrease your chances of ever getting her back. Why? Because you will be doing things that you will regret later on. If you do not get your head on straight you will probably start begging to get back together and this will not help. Just go out and have fun with your friends. Once you are not driven by emotions then you can go out and talk to her.

2-Say you are sorry and mean it

Now that you are thinking clearly again you should ask her if she wants to hang out with you. Make it clear it is not a date, just a hang out. Do not be surprised if she says that she does not want to hang out, she may not be ready yet. Just be patient with it and wait until she is ready. When you tell her you are sorry, you need to make sure you actually mean it, girls can tell if it was sincere or not. Even if it was not your fault you still need to apologize. However, it is important you do not overdo it and start pleading your case.

3-Change up your style

After you have said sorry and she knows you have started to change, you really need to start to impress her physically. The reason for this is because most women want to see that their man has changed before they get back together and by changing the way you look you are showing her you have changed. Plus, if you look good it will catch her eye and that is always a good thing.

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January 7, 2010

International And Inter-racial Dating

This piece of writing is about my experiences of international and inter-racial dating. It is purely an account of what I have seen and experienced myself over the course of my life so far, although at 55 years old, I am nearer the end of it than the beginning. It is my advice on dealing with an international or inter-racial relationship.

It all began at an early age when I was in infant school at seven. There was a Filipina girl in our class and I could not take my eyes off her, although I probably did not know much about it then. We parted at eight when they moved closer to another school and I never saw her again.

My next meeting with a foreign girl, was the mademoiselle junior teacher at school and I was convinced that I would marry a French country girl when I grew up. That passed when the German assistant arrived.

When I was fourteen, I went on a school cruise to Leningrad and there was a group of exchange students going home to Sweden on the same ship. I went out with one of them for roughly a week and first realized the problems that can come from international dating. There was a minor language barrier, but it was fun getting over that. The real difficulty came, because I had predetermined ideas of what Swedish girls were like, most likely instilled in me after years of silly ‘Carry On’ films.

At sixteen, I went to Germany to work for the summer and I found it very easy to get on with the German girls, although they were shyer that I was expecting too. Also an outlook I owed to silly Health and Efficiency ’sex films’.

After concluding university, I moved to The Netherlands to live. It was the seventies and Dutch girls were great. However, I made friends with male British colleagues initially and soon saw some of the problems that can come from an international relationship. Most of the men I knew were typical Brits and made absolutely no attempt to learn Dutch at all. To my surprise, many Dutch people could not speak English either, especially the parents.

This lead to a surprising number of stressful moments in a week and that put a lot of strain on my friends’ relationships. It is so easy to start name-calling when you are angry and it is the worst thing you can do. The Dutch girlfriend or her parents or friends would be called ‘a stupid cheese eater’ or something equally foolish and the relationship was over or in trouble for days. I do not recall what the Dutch called us.

I vowed to myself there and then never to get serious about a foreign girl because the arguments were just too much. Food was never a problem. Culture was not much of a problem, although where I was in southern Netherlands, most people were Catholic and I am not. This did bother some parents but not me. Travelling was always going to be the problem. Do you live by her parents or yours? In particular when children start arriving. Most countries have stronger family ties than Britain.

Then, at 50, having never been married, I went to Thailand, where I met my wife-to-be. Asian culture is very different from British or even European society and it is a real shock to both parties. Anyway, five years into our relationship and we are still fine. I recollect the reasons I gave myself for not marrying abroad when in The Netherlands and I was incorrect, but not much.

If you are going to enter into an international or even inter-racial relationship, you had better learn how to manage your anger. It is the most important advice you will ever get. Being understanding of other points of view is important too, but not getting angry is more important. Furthermore, you must try to learn something about your partner’s land, culture and language, otherwise you cannot join in any discussion your partner may have with someone who does know a bit about it.

I have never seen religion be a problem ever, except in an argument. My wife is Buddhist and I am not. We talk about it, but there is never any stress. Food, again I have never seen a problem in this field. Clothing, again no problem in my life. If you get into an international or inter-racial relationship, keep your temper, do not shout, do not get angry and talk things out calmly.

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January 5, 2010

How To Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend Even If It Seems Impossible

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , — Mike Lemburg @ 7:44 am

Do you want to know how to get back with your ex girlfriend? If you and your girl recently went through a break up then I a excited you are reading this right now. Once you start to apply these tips she will begin to come crawling into your arms once again.

1-The first step is easy…Be happy!

Yes, that is right. I know it may actually be hard right now because you have a broken heart, but if you want to get her back you need to be happy. Most guys act really depressed around their girl thinking this will show her how much she actually meant to them. Once you do this, the girl will just realize how boring you are and how dependent you are on her. Right now you want to impress her and still make her laugh even right after you guys broke up. If you can accomplish this she will remember how much fun she use to have with you.

2-Don’t rush straight into things I promise you it will be much easier to get back together with her if you do not rush into things. It will be very beneficial to your relationship right now if you learn how to become best friends with her rather than just trying to date her again. If you go straight into wanting to date her then things will end up how they did this time.

3-Say you are sorry even if it wasn’t your fault

If we are going to be honest, every girl wants their man to actually be a man. Women no longer want to date a boy. One of the best ways to show her that you have become a man is to take the blame even if you did nothing wrong. This will show her that you are ready to provide for her and maybe even someday a family. There is more to saying sorry than you thought huh?

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December 31, 2009

How To Get My Girlfriend Back With Ease

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , — Mike Lemburg @ 5:18 am

Are you curious as to how you can finally get your girlfriend back? If you and your girlfriend recently broke up then I am glad you are here today reading this. Once you finish reading every word of this article you will be able to learn how to make her come crawling into your arms once again.

1-Make sure you give her the space she needs

I know you are going to be incredibly tempted to try to get in contact with her right after the break up but it is important you do not call her, text her, email her, or anything. This is no doubt the worst thing you can do at the moment. You need to give her some space and give her some time to miss you. Right now it is critical that she begins to miss you, if you are constantly texting and calling her do you really think she will miss you? She will just become annoyed with you!

2-Make sure you stay faithful to her

Here’s the deal, just because you and your girlfriend are no longer going out doesn’t give you the right to go out and date and sleep with other girls. How well do you think she will take it when you tell her that you slept with other women while you guys were separated? I can promise you she will not take it well at all. Make sure she is your one and only focus

3-Accept the fact that you are not longer together and start over

Do you remember the day you decided to finally go after her? Guess what, you are going to need to start from scratch and do it again! You need to accept the relationship as over and get out of the mindset of trying to get her back. Right now you need to be in the mindset of trying to get her for the first time. Tell her how much you respect her and would love to go on a date, send her flowers and cards, just do whatever you did to win her heart in the first place.

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December 30, 2009

Getting Back With Your Ex – 3 Selfless Steps To Getting Them Back

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , , , , , — Jessica Lauren @ 7:45 am

Have you had a complex break up recently? There are a lot of people that just give up and wait for their own death to come. They may be crippled for years to come from the agnst and hurt they feel. getting back your ex

I hope that you will not be one of the person that ends up broken and beaten down. My hope is to enable you to be a one of those that is able to get their ex back.

tip Number 1 That I want to show you is being able to get your wits back where they belong. While I do not like to brag, I had been quite a heart breaker before I got married to my husband. I have seen tons of men that have come after me with no thought of how crazy they were acting. They show up at my house in the middle of the night or send me texts saying that they are driving by. This does not feel flattering at all. I feel more like they are stalking me. People acting like this makes me very uncomfortable even seeing them – let alone getting back together with this person!

Making your ex think that you are a crazy stalker is not a good thing… trust me on this one. It is not going to work out for you if you do this. Make sure to give yourself enough time to think. Get your head on straight. Don’t go crazy on your ex.

tip Number 2 that I need to show you goes along with the above tip since the tip is : stop contacting your ex. You are not cutting off communication to make them stop thinking you are crazy this time. I have another thing in mind for this tip.

If you do not contact your ex and call them constantly they are going to be thinking about you more and more. They will be wondering why you have moved on and are not calling them. They are not used to not having your attention.They will start to miss you, believe it or not.

If you give your ex some time to think about you and miss you, it will be much more likely that you will be getting back with your ex. This is our long term goal so please do not skip this step. It is extremely important even though it may seem like it is very difficult. Don’t give up on getting back with your ex

tip Number 3 that I need to show you is that you should be a fun person to be around. Have you ever been around someone that just gives you joy and has fun? I’m sure that you will remember saying hey we have to go hang out with them again or I had a good time. Even if it was just as a friend you want to make your ex think and say these same things.

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December 27, 2009

Find People Search – A Awesome Way To Search For People Online

Wondering what find people search is? Maybe you have heard a lot about people search engines and possibly you had no clue that they even existed. In the article underneath I am going to tell a some specifics about people search and what it may be able to do for you.

Find People Search

One sort of people search is just to search for people on the www because you want to be reunited. It doesn’t matter if it is an old science teacher that helped you through school or if it is the old high school honey that could not perhaps look as big as she did back then you have a teriffic chance of finding them on the world wide web.

Find People Search

You can do a personal history check on people on the www as another type of search. Background checks can be performed on just about anyone. That’s cool huh? Did you know that people can actually see what is on your personal history check? My record was clean thankfully since I didn’t know until recently that people could pull my background check. I question if all those speeding tickets are included.

Searching for people online through social security numbers is also another popular way to search for people. When you search with the social security number you can also search the social security death index to see if someone is alive or deceased. There is not anything more terrible and humiliating than calling the residence that you believed your old buddy was alive in and finding out that they had passed away without your knowledge. If you do this it will bring up old hurts and only cause destruction to the relatives.

One other well-liked search is by searching for someone’s email address or by searching for people through an email address. All that is needed to reunite is a name or an email address.

As you can see find people search can be used in quite a few ways. With those option I am sure that you will be able to find something that will work for you.

Getting back together with that lost lover, that old companion or special associate can be a pretty enjoyable experience if you left on good conditions and just want to get back together. When you want to find someone that you have had some spats and quarrels you may just be bringing back some negative person back into your life. You just never know what you might find.

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